Our February Thing About was a wonderfully unstructured discussion of our relationship with structure. Structure can help us become more efficient, engender a sense of accomplishment, push us to do the thing we’d rather put off. It can also be overbearing, create a sense of failure or expectation, or take us out of the present moment.  Coincidentally, Saturday’s NYTimes’ feature by Melissa Kirsch explained the relevant concept of Future Me: Doing the harder thing now so that